From Trauma to Turn-On: Angela Skurtu’s Guide to Love, Sex, & Connection
Get ready for a lively and enlightening conversation with Angela Skurtu, a couples counselor and sex therapist who’s on a mission to help people build healthier, happier relationships! Angela shares her fascinating journey into sex therapy, fueled by her own experiences with religious trauma and cultural messaging around sexuality.
We dive into everything from the complexities of addiction and coping mechanisms to how trauma can reshape intimacy and connection. Angela’s approach is refreshingly upbeat and practical, aiming to normalize conversations about sex and empower people to embrace their sexuality without shame.
But it's not just about healing the past—Angela brings the fun back into intimacy! We chat about how endearment, creativity, and shared effort (yes, even doing the dishes!) can supercharge your relationship. Angela also dishes on navigating life’s transitions—whether it's raising kids, tackling retirement, or balancing business and happiness.
Plus, we explore how men and women face unique societal pressures and why self-compassion and emotional expression are essential tools for thriving, not just surviving.
This episode is packed with insights, laughter, and plenty of real talk about love, sex, and everything in between. Tune in and learn how to break old patterns, spark connection, and find joy in your relationships!
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Angela Skurtu and Her Journey
02:10 Cultural Influences on Sexuality
05:45 The Spectrum of Sexual Attitudes
09:21 Understanding Addiction and Coping Mechanisms
11:33 The Impact of Trauma on Sexual Relationships
20:51 Breaking the Cycle of Abuse and Trauma
25:44 The Hidden Struggles of Success
28:09 Common Challenges in Relationships Post-Children
31:31 Navigating Sexuality in Later Life
33:38 The Evolution of Gender Roles and Emotional Expression
41:50 Resilience and Emotional Regulation in Crisis Situations
51:59 The Pursuit of Success and Personal Reflection
54:40 Finding Balance: From Grind to Green Zones
57:59 Generational Perspectives on Work and Value
01:01:33 Negotiation in Relationships: The Long Game
01:04:44 Empowerment Through Creativity in Intimacy
01:10:30 Connecting Through Endearment: The Gateway to Intimacy
Guest: Angela Skurtu, author of From F*ck No to F*ck Yes Sex! (Open Bedroom Doors)
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Angela Skurtu
Author, LMFT
Angela Skurtu, M.Ed., LMFT-S, ACST-S. Angela is a Keynote Speaker and Author of the books “From F*ck No to F*ck Yes Sex!” (2025), “Helping Couples Overcome Infidelity: A Therapist’s Manual” (2018), and “Pre-Marital Counseling: A Guide for Clinicians” (2016). She is a Licensed Marriage Therapist and Supervisor (AAMFT) and a Certified Sex Therapist and Supervisor (AASECT). You can find Angela’s information at OpenBedroomDoors.com.
Angela on a personal level: I help couples who are best friends take their relationship from the “friend zone” to the “sexy zone” by normalizing conversations about sex. I love this work. Every day, I am privileged to walk with couples in their time of need and help sexually empower them. For many of the couples I work with, sex is mired in shame. Instead of feeling comfortable in their body, sex is scary, lonely, and creates anxiety. My work with couples is all about helping them find their own creative sexual style and become their authentic sexual selves. My passion is to help individuals find their sexual voice and their personal sexual identity. I’m Angela Skurtu and I open bedroom doors!
